There’s No Shame in Becoming an Expatriate

I usually don’t take much stock in what “International Living” puts out nowadays, but every now and then I find a good article in some of the emails they send me.  They currently are touting Ecuador as the greatest place on Earth for expats to live, after the bubble in Belize has kind of burst.

Any way they send me four or five emails a day trying to sell me on Ecuador or Costa Rica, some newsletter, and conferences and stuff.  I usually just look at the email and delete it, but yesterday I came across something I thought was interesting.

The editor wrote an article about explaining what an expat is, and I thought it was a very poignant article, so I thought I would share.  The article basically explains what an expatriate is, and clears up some of the misconceptions some people have.

I know a lot of people from where I come from in South Carolina think if you don’t live in the USA, you are not an “American”, and therefore have no rights as the rest of the people in the USA have.  I have been told I can’t vote, or have a say in the politics of the USA because I don’t live in the USA at the moment.  Of course they are wrong, being an expat you are still an “American”, and have all the rights as someone living in the USA.

This article does a very good job of explaining things to these people.

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There’s No Shame in Becoming an Expatriate

By Dan Prescher

The Cambridge English Dictionary defines an expatriate as someone who does not live in their own country.

That’s the noun, and it’s pretty innocuous. The definition doesn’t say anything about expatriates not liking their own country, or being kicked out of their own country, or never wanting to go back to their own country. It simply says that, for whatever reason, they don’t live there.

The verb form of “expatriate” is a little different. To expatriate someone means to use force or law to remove someone from their own country. This is not innocuous at all…it is a strong term. It implies that, when you expatriate someone, you do so against their will, since you have to use force or law to do it.

So, all people who have been expatriated are expatriates…but not all expatriates have been expatriated.

Certainly no expatriates I know have been forced to expatriate. They live somewhere besides their own country because they want to…because the weather is better, or the pace of life is slower, or the cost of living is cheaper, or they love the country and culture they’ve moved to, or they want to have an adventure. Or any combination of the above.

I’m thinking of this lately because I use the term “expat” a lot, and I know what I mean by it. I mean someone who has willingly found a better life for themselves outside their home country. They’ve become a willing expatriate.

But some people I talk to don’t share the same meaning of the word…they consider an expat someone who has either been kicked out of or has turned their backs on their own countries.

Most of these folks have never lived outside their home countries for any length of time and can’t imagine why they—or anyone else—would ever do so.

Even if they could cut their cost of living in half…even if they never had to shovel snow and chip ice again…even if they could get a lifestyle so relaxed that their blood pressure went down…even if they could immerse themselves in another colorful and interesting culture and see things from a completely different point of view. For them, having to go somewhere outside their home country amounts to some kind of betrayal. Something unpatriotic.

And that’s another way the word expatriate gets interpreted. People sometimes think that being an expatriate is the same as being an ex-patriot—a former patriot—as in, someone who no longer is a big fan of their own country. They sound almost exactly the same, and this can give rise to misunderstandings.

Patriotism can be a touchy subject, even among expatriates. There are endless conversations in expat bars, cafes, and hangouts around the world about what makes a patriot, and whether or not you can still be a patriot if you’ve willingly chosen to live abroad.

The obvious answer for me and almost every other expat I know is, a patriot is simply someone who loves their own country, and you can do that no matter where on the planet you actually choose to reside.

This may all sound like just a lot of useless semantics, but it can make a huge difference to expats and to the people they know and love back home. Especially in election cycles when opinions about politics back home can get strong, most of the expats I know want it to be very clear that they still have deep concerns for the welfare and future of their own countries no matter where they live…and that they still have every right to those concerns.

Which is why it can be important for expats to make that distinction in definitions and to be very clear about their status.

There should be no confusion…being a willing expatriate is not the same as being someone who was expatriated. And being an expatriate is definitely not the same as being an ex-patriot.

Thanks for reading,

Stewart Rogers USA-South Carolina

3 thoughts on “There’s No Shame in Becoming an Expatriate

  1. Thanks for sharing this article. I really don’t care what people call me; I am a person who was born in the U.S. but who now lives permanently in Mexico. But what this article doesn’t address is the political power, and the sometimes elitist meaning, of the word “expat.” Whether the expats I know came to Mexico for a better life, a work transfer, or personal reasons, we are hardly every called immigrants. What aren’t the immigrants, Mexican or other, legal or illegal, who live in the U.S. ever called expats?

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